Even us fabulous girls can get confused when it comes to the proper table setting. Unfortunately, it is something that the younger generations may not have been taught as children. But if you follow these easy to remember steps, you will never have to worry. For a basic table setting, here are two great tips — remember the order of plates and utensils:
- Picture the word “FORKS.” The order, left to right, is: F for Fork, O for the Plate (the shape!), K for Knives and S for Spoons. (Okay — you have to forget the R, but you get the idea!)
- Holding your hands in front of you, touch the tips of your thumbs to the tips of your forefingers to make a lowercase ‘b’ with your left hand and a lowercase ‘d’ with your right hand. This reminds you that “bread and butter” go to the left of the place setting and “drinks” go on the right. Emily Post could have used that trick — she was often confused about which bread and butter belonged to her — and sometimes she used her neighbor’s! In which case, when it was called to her attention, she would say to the dismayed lady or gentleman, “Oh, I am always mixing them up. Here, please take mine!” Some other things to know: Knife blades always face the plate *The napkin goes to the left of the fork, or on the plate*The bread and butter knife are optional! Follow these fabulous tips and you are guaranteed a repeat invite!